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| Inky stops to smell the sunflowers |
Warning: long and boring post ahead!
I haven’t blogged about blogging in a while, so if that bores you, please feel free not to read on. In fact, that’s my philosophy in general for blogging and social media interactions: read what you like and disregard the rest. Sometimes that’s tough though. Example: someone on Reddit criticized me for the above image of Inky. They said they didn’t know if sunflowers were bad for cats, but they might be since some other flowers are, so I should be more careful. It turns out that (1) Inky only sniffed the flowers and sauntered off after I took the pic; (2) I then put the flowers outside because I was having an allergic reaction to all my birthday bouquets (there were a lot!); and (3) sunflowers are not toxic to cats ~ info found via a quick google, which that person could have easily done before criticizing me. I wanted to, but didn’t, say all that and cause a big to-do on the animal shelter’s post. Instead, I walked away, both from the post and the site. Highly recommend this behavior.
Why did I decide to give up Reddit altogether? Because I was tired of seeing the same old political garbage stink up every topic, however unrelated. The photo was just the last straw. Same thing happened with BlueSky, but in their case it was specifically due to the raging antisemitism that no amount of filters could combat. Sometimes I wish I hadn’t returned to Facebook in 2020 ~ the politics are out of control there as well ~ but unfortunately so many of my peeps refuse to use any other platform to communicate. Example: all my FB friends (who are often in-person friends as well) know this blog exists. Do they ever visit and comment? Nope.
EXCEPT YOU, KEERA! ❤️
Recently, I received an anonymous comment here that was crabby and critical. At first, I let it through because it wasn’t an ad, but then I had second thoughts after a bunch of other people commented. The anon comment could have been taken as criticism of them as well, and I don’t allow that here. Personal attacks are what destroyed my first blog during the Pit Bull War, and I vowed since then not to permit any nastiness on posts under my control. I don’t mind non-nasty anonymous comments if the commenter chooses a name to attach to their words consistently, but if they can’t be bothered with that, then no. I just created a comment policy for the comment form box thingy to remind my visitors, so there are no excuses.
It’s great to be able to review and/ or delete comments before they go live, and even afterwards if you change your mind. There aren’t as many bells and whistles here on Blogger as there were on WordPress, and in some ways that’s better because fewer things go wrong. I’ve never experienced glitches here that prevented me from posting for X number of hours or seeing other Blogger posts. I don’t think we’re periodically overrun with bot swarms either, which we were on WP from time to time, or at least I haven’t been. In general, I don’t see ads, except on a few blogs whose owners, I presume, deliberately have them in hopes of earning a few cents. WP blogs, on the other hand, are full of repulsive ads unless you pay to avoid them. You also have to pay for image storage over on WP, but my Blogger pics are folded into my Google account, and I pay Google a small fee each month for a giant glob of storage that should be enough until the end of time or until I die, whichever comes first. That said, I am still cautious about adding a new image for every post ~ I try to reuse ones already saved, as I did here.
That’s all for now…

This is an interesting post, Paula-- and I'm with you on comments. I am lucky in that I have never had anything nasty or mean. I try to stay away from controversial topics, though I'm pretty sure I'll get into an opinion piece now and then that others may or may not agree with. And that's fine, as long as it is respectful and civil. I don't mind a difference of opinion or constructive criticism but not anything mean. (I probably would have left the photo of Inky in place because it is your spot. That may be their opinion but it didn't mean you had to change it. All those reasons you mentioned back that up! But that's just me, and I can see why you had your reasons.)
ReplyDeleteFB is my only other social media platform other than the blog. I have an insta account but I never go there. Too deep a pit in which to fall. FB drives me nuts -- so many sponsored posts and ads. But I will keep it because of its connection to messenger and the only way I can access that now for video calls is by phone (which I hate) or FB, as they dropped the computer app. But it sure is hard to find your friends there with all the ads!
I moderate too -- and I still really like the blogger program. It periodically gets its glitches but overall, it works for me!
Thanks Jeanie! I appreciate you. Inky’s sunflower pic is still on Reddit, but I have quit reading the site on a daily basis 🙂
DeleteI do delete spam comments, and I reserve the right to delete comments that anger me. It's my blog, and I can do what I want there. Although, I've never felt the need to delete any comments that weren't spam. Even on my Tuesday posts, which are political, I haven't needed to. I don't mind if someone disagrees with me. I think most of us don't comment on posts that upset us. At least, in my experience.
ReplyDeleteGood to know, Liz! I might want to post about politics once in a while 😀
DeleteCensoring is happening sometimes, I had a Post Censored for the first time and it was a complete mystery as to why, Dear Readers didn't find anything the least bit controversial or offensive in it, nor did I, but, some random Moderator or Reader might have gotten the Vapors and clutched their Pearls, rather than just moving on, since, Reading or Visiting anything is voluntary, not mandatory. I liked Inky's Sunflower Pic... and most Comments are civil, but every once in a while you get the Trolls and Bots that show up, not often thankfully. Glad to have found your Blog... I think I too have enuf Storage to last a lifetime and not have to pay very much for it, so it's well worth it... this being my Happy Space Community of Wonderful People.
ReplyDeleteThanks! It’s great to “meet” you!
DeleteI've heard very little good about Reddit. It has a reputation for being seriously censorship-prone. And politics tends to ruin anyplace it worms its way into.
ReplyDeleteSocial media are designed to feed people stuff that makes them angry and upset ("rage-bait") because that keeps them engaged and scrolling, which is what they want.
Yes, and some people enjoy the rage, it seems. Not me! I use social media for a break from the rage inducing news…
DeleteThe Exceptional Keera at your service, Paula! 😂 I like your writing and I like that we've known each other online for ages! As for social media, it's ruined by too many algorithms. I like the random stuff that used to just pop up, not the echo chamber that goes into overdrive if you even think a comment. I don't see much fighting or extreme politics in my feeds but I don't engage in those kinds of posts. The merciless bullying of anyone who got something wrong makes me mostly a lurker, leaving useless likes here and there. Which is why a blog, by an actual person—where I can safely leave a comment—* is a downright blessing! Thank you, Paula! 💜
ReplyDelete*) AI can shove it. I like m-dashes!
I remember the good old days when writers discussed (or argued about) writing and books. We could probably have a weeks-long kerfuffle about those dashes, lol. Now it’s all politics everywhere (vomit emoji). Thanks for being there, Keera!
DeleteHi Paula. I can't stand Facebook and the culture it creates. I left back in 2020 and with that I left many " so called friends and family" who said, we'd keep in touch. Year right! No regrets.
ReplyDeleteIt’s pretty horrible. If it weren’t for my book club and events posted there, I wouldn’t bother checking it. Meme city 😜
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